Sunday, November 08, 2009

Can I spare the rod & nags?

i want to ask him to eat lunch first, but he's a kid, cmon a kid must do what a kid does. he must play. he must enjoy his childhood. he cannot sink into the boring routines now. that's... boring. so i let him assemble his snow gliding machine. i told him it's to use in snow... he chirpily moved the machine around, towards hai and echoed "snow~~~~!"

i just love to see wei wen smile.

ahhs. so cute. then he ate his lunch :) :)

somehow i believe that kids know what they're supposed to do. just do with them a little more smiles, a little more encouragement, a little fun and indulgence. they will move. in ur desired direction. so, perhaps, i can, i can spare the rod & nags.

one day he'll grow up to be a great man who knows how to think for himself and more importantly for others. smth like isaac. or david. in God's hands, he will :)

...and so will justin, tian en, hovan and all. trying not to be so obvious in being bias :P

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a week ago, this time, i was certain i want to adopt him to be my godson. running crazy. but i dun dare to. it's too big a responsibility. at best, i can visit him once a week. at worst, i will just totally neglect him. it's gonna b a great sin to neglect a 7 year old. cannot afford it.

thinking of how to improve his maths. maybe buy monopoly for him. or start small with uno. flipped thru assessment books in popular and it's crazy. i nv remembered doing models in Pri 1. pity all the kids man.

that's why i am really tempted to spare the rod & nags, let him enjoy a little more childhood.

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